Want to know how to meet single women online, who actually want to go out on a date with you? Its easy! Believe it or not, online dating is not that different than meeting people in real life. Sure, the rules of the game are a bit different, but the basic principals are still the same. Pay careful attention to the following tips and soon your only problem will be not having enough time to meet all the women that want to go out with you.
Know exactly what you want
This is where most people get it wrong. Before registering on a dating website, creating your profile and getting in touch with singles, you need to know exactly what your goal is. Are you looking for a serious relationship? Something more casual? Friends with benefits? Whatever it is, figure it out now. The kind of thinking ‘I want to make new friends & possible more’ won’t do you any favours.
If you are looking for that special someone, what is the point of going out with women that just want to have fun? Wouldn’t it be a waste of time to date a woman who wants have kids and settle down, if all you want is casual sex?
Be honest. Women like that. You will be surprised how easy it is to find what you want, once the cards are on the table.
Creating a killer dating profile
There are 2 important components here – your photo and the description of yourself. You have to get them both right.
Do you know what is the first thing women look at? That’s correct, the profile picture. The good news is that you don’t have to be Brad Pitt or a Calvin Klein model with a six pack. What kind of photo attracts the most attention? A simple face shot of a smiling person. Avoid uploading images of you in a silly hat, drinking with your friends, walking your dog or celebrating Christmas with your family. Pictures on which you appear as a small dot in front of a famous landmark are also not recommended. Keep it simple and recent.
Now, the description. Starting with ‘I don’t know what to say about myself’ or ‘Its so difficult to describe yourself” won’t do you any favours. When ask what kind of a men they like, most women respond – kind, sensitive and with a good sense of humour. That is not entirely true. What women really like is a confident man! And that is exactly how you need to present yourself. Don’t be shy. List your best qualities and achievements. Share one of your big dreams or goals in life. State clearly what you are looking for and why.
If you create such a profile, you will be surprised how many messages you receive.
Communicating with single women online
Worried that you will send someone a message and she won’t reply? Don’t be. Here is a little trick which will get you a response 99% of the time.
Ask a question in your message. Yes, it is that simple! It is easy to ignore a boring message like “I just saw your profile and wanted to say hi…”. But it is difficult not to answer a question, especially if it related to you or something you enjoy doing.
Still, it is good to remember what your goal is. Don’t waste weeks chatting and sending messages to a girl you like. Ask her out! Coffee or a walk in the park is better for a first date, than diner in a fancy restaurant.
Stick to these simple rules and you won’t regret it.